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This Week's
Recommended Book:
It's My Life Now

   One of the most critical times for the victim of domestic violence is the time after she leaves.

   Leaving is not the end of the nightmare. It is the beginning of the journey toward healing and happiness. . .


  Featured Advice
Problems With The Boss

   There are only two good answers to unfairness in the workplace: rank so high in the social network you are protected, or. . .
   


 


Expert Advice 

   There are only two ways of knowing about something. We can know what it is, and we can know what it is not.

   Each week Wayne & Tamara examine the reasoning of a different relationship expert. In the spotlight this week, the research and reasoning of:
Peggy Vaughan.

Comments On Other Experts: John GrayJohn GottmanDiane SolleeGary SmalleyBarbara De AngelisJudith WallersteinJudy KurianskyLinda WaiteMichele Weiner DavisPepper SchwartzPhil McGrawShirley GlassFrank PittmanPeggy VaughanWilliam Doherty

 


    Week     
This Week's Column
    # 473
       Week of May 5, 2008

I Smell A ...
   "I was in love for the first time with a man while he was a student at an elite university.  We were secretly engaged to be married quietly.  Two months before the wedding, he called it off. . ."


Last Week's Column
Speed Dating

    "I am a 19-year-old college freshman who has never been married.  However, I seem to have gotten myself far too deeply into something I am not
ready for. . . "

 



     The Love Project

   When Robert Epstein, Harvard-trained Ph.D. and former editor-in-chief of Psychology Today, proposed creating love between two people, Wayne & Tamara labeled it the most ill-advised scheme they had ever heard of. . .
  

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